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Before I go to bed, here's something I was thinkin' about in the shower:

Internet, how often do you find someone's typing habits affecting your opinion of them? I mean, there's the obvious ones where if someone speaks in near-incomprehensible chatspeak and fangirl Japanese or whatever then you avoid them like the plague, but what about smaller things like, say, what smilies they use, or whether they type in all lowercase, or if they "roleplay" while chatting (*grins*, *laughs*, *nods*, etc), or if they keyboard mash a lot.

For example, say someone used perfect grammar and never used smilies or caps or anything like that, and everything they wrote always seemed calm and thought-out. Would you think that person was intelligent, or would you think they were arrogant or unapproachable? What if someone else were to (in essence) say the exact same things that person said, only with a less serious typing style (caps, sarcastic italics/bolding, whatever). Would you think they were smarter or easier to talk to than the other person? What other quirks have an effect on you?

I'd offer my thoughts, but I don't wanna risk coloring someone else's opinion or anything, so I'll wait :V LET ME KNOW, I'VE BEEN THINKING ABOUT THIS A LOT FOR SOME REASON

Edit: Oh yeah, and what about you? Are there certain smilies you refuse to use because you feel they give off a certain impression, or anything like that? IF SO, THROW THAT IN TOO

Date: 2008-11-10 02:35 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] wishwashing.livejournal.com
personally, i find that it's easier to talk to someone who doesn't type with perfect grammar and capitalization. i feel like i have to match their etiquette or else they'll look down on me.

i'm fine with emotes and shortened words and pretty much everything, as long as it is used in moderation. if you need to get out something fast, why take the time to completely write it out if they'll understand it either way? i know most users on LJ are against me on this, but words like omg and lol do not bother me at all. we're not writing college essays, people.

Date: 2008-11-10 07:34 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] doxinator.livejournal.com
Honestly--and I know I'm in the minority, here--but I totally agree with you. There's certain situations that call for certain ways of typing, of course (if someone is genuinely upset about something then I'm not going to be like ADKFGHAJDFKGH SORRY OMG), but if I'm having a friendly conversation with someone then I just want to be able relax and pal around, you know?

"lol" doesn't bother me, but "lulz" and "lawl" really do for some reason. though maybe that's just anon rubbing off on me

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